Marriage is an exclusive, intimate,complementary, reproductive and permanent relationship with a partner of opposite sex. Choosing a life partner is a very important decision and any mistake in it can make rest of our life miserable.
If you are looking for personality traits instead of character, though it is good but will not help you to lead a healthy married life. You should have to look for a partner with good character because character is that determines how he/she treats himself/herself and you. Personality is like icing while character is the substance.
Matured love: There are people who are in love with themselves only. They love another person because of what pleasure that person might bring to them. Such love is not true love. Mature love finds delight in the enrichment of the partner, not in the satisfaction of self. This is very essential thing which you need to understand on choosing a partner for your life.
Commitment towards you: Share before marriage the commitments you expect from your partner after marriage. You can talk about the commitment towards you, children, household things, profession and so on. This will help you to reduce issues regarding this after marriage.
Compatibility of the Family: A marriage relation is not only a relationship between husband and wife. It is also a relationship with the family members, relatives and friends of each other. It is better to choose a partner who should also love and take care of your parents.
Qualifications: Choosing a partner with qualifications and literacy as yours is also necessary. Otherwise it later affects your family life when you relate your profession and status with your partner. Some people find it difficult to adjust with spouse much more qualified than them.
Finance and Family status: If you can, it is also better to choose a partner with finance and family status similar to you. Otherwise you may later face troubles to present you confidently in front of your relatives and friends.
After the marriage there is nothing more important for the couples to choose a well deserved vacation. The honeymoon will give the couples an opportunity to know and start loving each other. It will help them to get out of the tensions and tiredness caused by marriage. Boating, sightseeing, surfing, swimming, viewing sunset, candlelight dinner and so on, there are lot of activities which couples can do in their honeymoon. As the honeymoon should be filled with activities both you and your loved one can enjoy together, you should take careful steps in choosing a proper honeymoon location.
Destination: Choosing a destination is the primary thing in planning a honeymoon location. It is always better to choose a place where both of you are interested. In my opinion, it would be easy if you first plan the activities you wish to do in your honeymoon, so that you can choose location where those activities are possible. I prefer to also choose safe locations and safe destinations, so that the honeymoon may not end in sadness.
Budget: There are thousands of beautiful locations in this world. Choosing a destination that you cannot afford is not a wise decision. It will only end up in financial burden and troubles which destroy all your happiness and peacefulness. Therefore compare your budget with your destination and activities before you fix the location.
Duration: It is also necessary to fix a time frame for your honeymoon. Don’t let the honeymoon make you lazy and thus to spoil your future. You should be also aware that the expense will also increase when the duration of honeymoon increase. So fix a time frame according to your other schedules, office leaves and make a small rough agenda for your activities.
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